I'm having a seriously shitty day today.  I love it when my oh so loving husband is being a complete an utter ass first thing in the morning.  Nothing like having a fight to start the day off right.  Apparently I ruined his entire weekend and demanded that he go swimming with Zoe rather than do the dishes.  WTF?!?!  So now I guess we have a new arrangement for the laundry.  He is going to do his and I will be doing the rest.  I guess the same will go for dishes and anything else in the house that needs to be done.  If it isn't his he isn't touching it.  I'm so angry and hurt right now.  But then again I'm the horrible selfish person in the relationship and he does all the work so I have no right to complain when he tells me he will hand wash a shirt for me and 3 weeks goes by and it doesn't get done and I make the mistake of mentioning it.  Oh and how dare I suggest the bed gets made in the morning.  So much for trying to teach my daughter some basic housekeeping.  I just don't even know what to think right now.  Christ what I wouldn't give for 10 minutes privacy and a good blade.